Bisexuality, Personal Shit

bisexuality ain’t on no scale

I’ll tell you one thing friends… you know that whole “sexuality is on a scale” argument, with one side being straight and one side being gay and many people falling somewhere between those two poles? Well, actually being bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, sexually fluid, or any of the other terms under that umbrella kind of makes […]

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Bisexuality, Personal Shit

what does “bisexual” mean to me?

A lot of prejudiced people think that ALL bisexuals are amoral, perverted, slutty people who want to “have it all” and won’t commit to anyone or anything. And to those people I say: We’re not all like that! … I mean, I totally am. But I’m only slutty, perverted, and amoral in situations that start with […]

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Gay and Lesbian stuff, Love, Personal Shit, Politics, Sex

Happy Bisexual Pride Day! Are you one of us?

“Gay” looks like a large nation state, and “straight” looks like a whole continent, but “bi” is sort of like a sexual Micronesia.

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Gay and Lesbian stuff, Personal Shit, Politics, Sex

#StillBisexual

I made a video for the #StillBisexual Twitter-y YouTube video campaign thingie. The music is by the delightful Kyle Souza.

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Gay and Lesbian stuff, Love, Other Stuff, Personal Shit, Politics

I’m “queer?”

Okay, so let’s talk about the term “queer.” How do you feel about its use as a self-identifier, as the “Q” in LGBTQ? I’ve noticed that it’s gendered: many of my female friends identify as queer, whether or not they seem to date other women. Yet guys like myself who are generally straight but occasionally […]

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